Sleep Dream.  D and Lar are visiting a version of the Elati house. I’m showing them around, Lar never having seem the place. He is not at all critical or dismissive, as I’d imagined he might be. Instead, he seems to be really interested in the place, what I’ve done to it. He even offers suggestions.

Dream Associations.  The feeling of the dream was one that I knew from the Joneses: the uncomfortable energies emanating from the male half of a couple. The man’s anger, jealousy and incomprehension directed at me. Yet, in this dream the man is not so hostile toward me. There is a guardedness in our interactions, but no hostility.

Family patterns. Oi. I am deeply moved by a number of the folks in the W. clan, their openness and generosity. So different from the cold and desiccated Reserve and Hostility of my family of origin.